[post_page_title]Out with the truth[/post_page_title]
While people who cheat may find ways to justify what they do, there is no substitute for just coming out and telling the truth. If they have grown bored of their relationship they should just say so, instead of sneaking around and causing damage to their partner.
Also, once an affair begins, it’s best to just come out and admit it from the beginning. The longer it all goes on for, the more hurt it’s going to cause when the truth comes out.